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  Nadine Dorries has been suspended from the Tory Party over her decision to take part in reality TV show I’m A Celebrity, Get Me Out Of Here!, and right on cue, the feminist blogosphere is rejoicing, with many people … Continue reading →

So, he’s tied to the chair and being threatened and caressed by the evil queer villain who alludes to there being a first time for everything… and then Bond says: ‘What makes you think it’s my first time?’ And there … Continue reading →

My co-organiser gave this speech on the opening night of the event, summarising the controversy over our gender balancing policy and making explicit our feminist agenda. My role in the welcoming session was to give a more general welcome and … Continue reading →

This year, my partner and I ran the third UK OpenCon – a weekend-long, residential unconference creating space for experienced non-monogamous people to discuss non-monogamy in greater depth than could usually be possible at a one-day introductory event. The past … Continue reading →

[in response to Love Is Infinite's musings on working in a bank] A friend of mine is vegan and a teacher, but is not vegan at work. She says that she only has a certain number of… ‘distancing myself from … Continue reading →

So, there was this space, full of happy, noisy, brash, confident women – playing, talking about kink, discussing stuff and teaching each other, and there totally weren’t even any annoying men there. I’ve just come back from the S/M Dykes … Continue reading →

Three years ago, I had my cunt cast. It was only last week that I really understood why. The Great Wall Of Vagina is an art project, showing the cast cunts of four hundred women and a few trans men, … Continue reading →

Thus asked Love Is Infinite today, and I just thought I’d paste my comment here, with some exposition. In general, I’m so pleased to see various different alternative sexuality groups talking more recently about our communities not always being up … Continue reading →

I feel like there are only a couple of relatively basic conversations that are going on about the intersections of kink and feminism, and that old stereotypes and these old patterns are silencing deeper, more informed and important conversations that … Continue reading →

Quite a few people have asked me for vibrator recommendations over the last few days, often with several extremely specific criteria. I’m utterly delighted by this, and welcome more questions, and I’ve also noticed that I’ve actually got a relatively … Continue reading →